I agree 100% with the responses so far -- you should not be on call for
her, and I like the idea of setting boundaries by offering certain days
(and of course in emergencies...though that doesn't include her needing
a massage - ha!)
I've enjoyed visiting cities solo - while I sometimes get a little
lonely it is great to be able to choose the itinerary for the day. I
have only been to English speaking cities alone (a number in the US plus
London and Toronto) but am inspired to br...